This could play out so many ways.
Perhaps you’d like to start with a drink? We can play at your hotel, or my luxury apartment in Central London. I’m always eager to play in a well equipped BDSM space, though my place is extensively stocked with everything we need.
London is my one true love, but I regularly play away…perhaps i’ll be meeting you in your city?
How should I get in touch?
I prefer a nicely written email as a first point of contact. It doesn’t have to be long – simply tell me a little about you, any questions you have, and what kind of fun you have in mind. If you can, please include a few possible dates and times. After that, we can arrange a mutually convenient time to chat, as I like to hear your voice before we meet.
My friend Rosalie has written an excellent blogpost on this very topic, if you’re still deliberating over it. Don’t be nervous! I only bite if you ask very sweetly.
I contacted you…but I haven’t had a reply.
If I felt your email was vulgar, presumptuous or a little curt, I may have overlooked it – I get enough quality enquiries that I tend towards being selective. Please know that I am not fond of last minute requests to meet “today” and I will outright dismiss any attempts to negotiate my fee. I prefer to have as much information as possible, so please be forthcoming about your background, interests, lifestyle…anything that you imagine I would find intriguing.
If you are certain your message should have met my high standards, then do try again, perhaps from another account, in case it ended up in spam.
Can we email back and forth for a while until I get a sense of what you’re like? I’m not totally sure about booking.
Whilst i’m happy to put your mind at ease about our meeting, and respond to any questions or suggestions as to what you think might be fun for us to do together, I do not indulge long online chats – I’m far more exciting in real life! My time is valuable and i’d far rather spend it on pursuing intimacy in realtime.
I think this site gives a fairly thorough impression of me, but if you’d like to find out a little more between now and our first meeting, my blog, twitter and instagram feed at the bottom of the page are just a click away.
I’m interested in [acronym] services or a shorter booking.
Single hour bookings are sometimes possible for those I’ve met before, by virtue of the familiarity and intimacy forged in previous, more leisurely meetups. I’m partial to fast, intense encounters, but the intensity must come after some conversation, in my experience.
As for services, I think the content of my site paints a fairly clear picture of my sexual inclinations, which can range from submissive to dominant, from romantic to hardcore, from vanilla to perverted, depending on my mood and our chemistry. I am quite happy to answer any questions via email – or better yet, allow me to quiz you on what turns you on when we meet.
I always play safe, and every element of our encounter is at my discretion.
Where are you based? Can you travel to me?
I have the use of a discreet luxury apartment in the heart of London’s vibrant West End – a quiet sanctuary above the hustle and bustle of a busy street. There are a number of suitable dining options nearby. I am happy to see you here for incalls, or at your Central London hotel.
Should you wish to see me further afield, I am happy to travel. Deposits to cover expenses will be required.
I have a disability.
Clients with disabilities are more than welcome to get in touch – we can adjust our time together to fit your needs.
If you have mobility issues, please be aware that whilst my apartment has lift access with only a small step at the threshold, my bathroom is not wheelchair accessible. For clients who use wheelchairs, I am happy to waive the outcall fee when visiting you at a Central London hotel of your choice.
Please contact me with any questions you may have about our date and your particular concerns.
What are your screening/deposit procedures?
Depending on what type of booking you make, the requirements for screening may include any of the following: your name, phone number, hotel reservation confirmation & room number, workplace verification or references from other companions.
If I’ve requested a deposit, it could be sent via bank transfer or Amazon gift vouchers, and would be fully refundable if I were to cancel. If you cancel with at least 48 hours notice, it would be used to secure a future booking.
I have some privacy concerns.
I understand worries about your private life – we are, after all, strangers (for now!) I promise that I have no desire to jeopardise your privacy by being indiscreet or reckless with your confidential details. My phone number is not googleable, and I have an alternative discreet email I can use to talk to you with if needed. Emails and texts are never seen by anyone but me, and I do not save numbers.
However, please never ask me to compromise my own safety & screening procedures for your reassurance – my security is as important to me as yours is to you. Any details you share with me are not kept or distributed, and are merely a formality so I can feel safe enough to relax in your company. I’m sure you would want the same level of reassurance for any women in your life.
If you have concerns about being spotted out and about with me then I can recommend some secluded dining options – otherwise room service is also fine. Something could also be arranged at my private apartment, if you are so inclined (perhaps you are something of a chef?)
What if I need to cancel?
I greatly appreciate being given as much notice as possible if you need to cancel our date – my time is limited and a last minute cancellation means we are at risk of getting off on the wrong foot. If it can’t be helped, a cancellation fee of 25% is a thoughtful way of showing you consider my time to be valuable, and will make sure I’m inclined to rearrange our plans.
Should I bring a gift?
You don’t have to feel obligated, but I can’t pretend I don’t love gifts, and am always very touched to receive them. See my Gifts page if you are a little short of ideas.
Can we invite someone else along?
Absolutely, I consider threesomes to be one of life’s true joys. I am happy to join you and your partner, or arrange a meeting with one of my own friends. See my duos page for more details.
Do you have any reviews?
Reviews are greatly appreciated, either on Punternet or, if we’ve met in the US, TER. If you choose to write a review, or discuss our time together in a public forum, please avoid being graphic or indiscreet, as well as taking care not to disclose details about private locations we’ve met at, and other sensitive information. See my other reviews for an idea of appropriate tone and detail.